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GLBT Favorite Non-Fiction Books M-Z

The Masculine Marine The Masculine Marine: homoeroticism in the U.S. Marine Corps
by Steven Zeeland (Harrington Park Press, 1996)

A fascinating study of the erotic lives and concerns of U.S. Marines, The Masculine Marine is written in a subject/interviewer style, giving the subjects the opportunity to explain what it is like to be in the Corps, and how this fact relates to their sexuality, homosexuality, or both. Some of the men feel in conflict between being a Marine, and all that it entails, and being themselves. Others are not. Every soldier interviewed stated that while they felt the cohesiveness of being in the Corps, they are individuals also, with feelings and fears like anyone else. They all like being looked at, but not objectified. This book provides a clearer picture of what these young men go through to become one of "the few and the proud," as well as some insight into the feelings of the lonely and the closeted. Their trials and tribulations, along with their victories and sense of pride, inspires respect for their choices. (Richard DiRusso)
Me Talk Pretty One Day Me Talk Pretty One Day
by David Sedaris (Little, Brown and Company, 2000)
There is nothing quite like the pleasure of laughing aloud while reading. "Me Talk Pretty One Day," David Sedaris' latest collection of semi-autobiographical essays had me howling in public and wiping tears from my eyes out of pure pleasure. Sedaris begins his latest collection with an amusing tale of his elementary school speech therapy sessions. "None of the therapy students were girls. They were all boys like me who kept movie star scrapbooks and made their own curtains." He also examines the symbiotic relationship between his younger brother (the Rooster) and their father, and recounts many absurd attempts at learning French after having moved to France to live with his boyfriend Hugh. If you would like a hilarious distraction from your own life, definitely pick up this book! (Karyn Prechtel)
Melancholia and Moralism Melancholia and Moralism: essays on AIDS and queer politics
by Douglas Crimp (MIT Press, 2002)

Douglas Crimp, a cultural studies professor, presents a series of essays critiquing the American public discourse on AIDS. The book covers a wide range – from safe sex ad campaigns to the media’s treatment of Magic Johnson; from neoconservative Andrew Sullivan to Randy Shilts’ bestseller “And the Band Played On.” The result is a stinging indictment of the limited ways that discussions about AIDS and gay rights have been framed in our culture.

Crimp attacks the idea that the epidemic is over, instead pointing out that the issue of AIDS has gone underground to influence a pseudo-moralistic anti-sex stance that many queer activists, in what Crimp calls the “melancholy” of loss, have identified with, thus unwittingly aiding the anti-gay rights agenda. He analyzes media representations of gay life to demonstrate how reality is continually distorted in order to accommodate conservative prejudices about homosexuality. Unlike many cultural studies by academics, Melancholia and Moralism is not obscure or filled with jargon – the style is bold, clear, and accessible. Challenging the way American culture reflects the issues of AIDS and gay life, it’s an invigorating and thought-provoking book that should inspire outrage and a new sense of commitment in the reader, and in queer politics. (Chris Dashiell)

My Dangerous Desires My Dangerous Desires: A Queer Girl Dreaming Her Way Home
by Amber L. Hollibaugh (Duke University, 2000)
The author, a self-described "lesbian sex radical," has compiled this very rich blend of autobiographical essay, feminist analysis, and sexual/political activism. A former prostitute, proud of her working class roots, she brings a unique perspective to issues of sexual preference and identity, pornography, women in patriarchy, and class tensions within feminism, the gay community, and society as a whole. Sprinkled with fascinating articles and interviews on topics as diverse as union organizing and lesbian attitudes towards AIDS, this book is a treasure trove of honest and thought-provoking ideas for anyone seeking greater personal and political awareness. (Chris Dashiell)
My Son Divine My Son Divine
by Frances Milstead, with Kevin Heffernan and Steve Yeager. (Alyson Books, 2001)
An easy, enjoyable read written with love by Divine’s mom, chock full of stuff that only a family member would know about or care to divulge. Coupled with great photos of Divine as a tot and young man as well as one of him in one of his first times doing drag.

Divine, born Harris Glen to Harris and Frances Milstead, their only child who they called by his middle name Glen, became one of the most outrageous and well-loved performers of the 20th Century. Frances knew that her son was headed down a different path when as a boy the family doctor gave her a “little talk” about his feminine behavior and mannerisms, noting that they could cause him trouble in the future. To his credit the doctor never suggest that he join the little league or prescribed any method to change young Glen’s innate characteristics but tried to get her to accept him as he is. She cried all the way home, but reconfirmed her love for him. A love which she still feels.

For a period of nine years, when John Waters and his films were starting to make waves, Mrs. Milstead's only communication with her son were the post cards and letters she received from various locations and addresses, each stating that he was happy and loved and missed them dearly. The estrangement was due to an argument about his spending habits, he left in a huff and went and lived on his own. She and Harris had reached a breaking point, Glen would habitually use her charge card to buy vast amounts of flowers or to cover for car repairs and other things and then not pay them leaving her with the growing bills, (this behavior was fairly ingrained, even when he was a successful star he still managed to stick her with a couple of unpaid credit card bills).

One day she came across an article in LIFE Magazine that was written about John Waters and the underground films he was making in Baltimore (the Milsteads had relocated to Florida by then) and mentioned his star, Divine and how his mother had sold the family business and moved to Florida when they found out about the films. This wasn’t the case, but it piqued her interest and the light when off – Divine was her son. As it happened Female Trouble was playing nearby at the time and Frances went to see the flick. Francis, after being warned not to, saw the movie and enjoyed it to boot! One film she hasn’t seen is Pink Flamingos, a classic with the notorious dog poop scene. Referring to that film her son told her that it’s amazing with what they can do with trick photography these days.

It was a sad day when Divine died, he was just beginning to taste the commercial success that had eluded him and that John Waters now rightly enjoys. Who knows how far he would have gone? For a warm, insightful, parental look at the most outrageous drag artist of them all, read, My Son Divine.
(Richard DiRusso)

Normal: transsexual CEOs, crossdressing cops, and hermaphrodites with attitude

Normal: transsexual CEOs, crossdressing cops, and hermaphrodites with attitude
by Amy Bloom (Random House, 2002)

In Normal, author and psychoanalyst Amy Bloom records her process of discovery of three very normal human phenomena; female-to-male transsexuals, heterosexual male crossdressers, and the intersexed (a preferred term for persons who have been born with ambiguous genitalia). Encouraged by her publisher to expand on her original piece in The New Yorker, Bloom devotes a lengthy and captivating essay to each topic in a non-sensationalistic, investigative style.

Bloom briefly places each phenomenon in historical context, followed by recent medical and psychological standards and data. She then compassionately interviews those closely involved; individuals who were not born with medically "normal" genitalia, female to male transsexuals, crossdressing heterosexual men, their partners and loved ones, social scientists, physicians, and psychologists. Just as Bloom's understanding of gender and sexuality radically changed through the course of writing this book, your own ideas of what is male and female are bound to be challenged by this fascinating and extremely well written book.
(Karyn Prechtel)

On The Down Low

On The Down Low: A Journey into the Lives of “Straight” Black Men who Sleep with Men
by J.L. King
(Broadway Books, 2004)

The premise of this book is that a sizeable percentage of “straight” African-American men are having unsafe man-to-man sex, thus exposing their female partners to HIV, in ever increasing numbers. With this in mind Mr. King writes to a female audience; giving them pointers on what to look for in order to tell if the man they are involved with is on the Down Low (DL).

I felt that the book is really more about raising suspicion in your relationships then about the proclivities of certain men. The reader continually is told about the behavior of “brothers” who while ostensibly heterosexual have an alternative self that is engaged in all kinds of homosexual behavior – which they just won’t acknowledge. Almost anything a man does or doesn’t do is suspect. I feel bad for the women who rely on this book to clarify things for them. According to Mr. King’s logic nothing short of catching your husband or boyfriend in the act is going to prove that they’re on the DL. To ease fears about the possibility of being in a relationship with a DL man each dire warning is countered with an acknowledgement that the guy might be a bona fide heterosexual with no DL inclinations at all. I won’t even get into the part were he tells women to have a gay friend play a decoy to “draw” their man out and then tell them if he played or not. Besides being a terrible thing to ask a friend to do, it doesn’t say much for Mr. King’s attitude about gay men. Though, to his credit he does state that honesty in a relationship is the best way to deal with problems.

I guess what bothered me the most about Mr. King is his own homophobia, He can’t bring himself to say he’s gay, he somewhat grudgingly admits to bisexuality, but I don’t buy it. Maybe he’s not gay, but he sure does engage in a lot of homosexual activity. He states, “If I admit I’m gay, my son’s friends will look at him differently. If I’m gay or bisexual, every time they talk about some gay thing on television, some gay bashing, or some gay issue you’ll think about me. I don’t want that.”

Besides being somewhat self-centered (is he really the center of that much attention?) I wonder what is so wrong with his son’s friends thinking that he’s gay? Maybe such knowledge would change their perceptions of gay men for the better? To Mr. King’s way of thinking, what others think about us is more important than how we think about ourselves. How does he expect conditions of gay men in the black community (and society in general) to ever change with an attitude like that?

On The Down Low would have been a better book if Mr. King had let other men speak of their experience more often and had not continually repeated the same litany of DL warning signs over and over. The subtitle, A Journey into the Lives of “Straight” Black Men Who Sleep with Men, might have worked better with the singular, “Man”, since Mr. King’s experience and outlooks are what the book is all about. (Rich DiRusso)

Out & About Campus Out & About Campus: Personal Accounts by Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, & Transgendered College Students
edited by Kim Howard & Annie Stevens (Alyson, 2000)
The editors have compiled 28 personal stories about being queer in college, reflecting a wide diversity of experiences and backgrounds. There is no sugar coating of reality here: from the BYU student who was told to enter "reparative therapy," to the Santa Clara student who survived a bashing, there are plenty of examples of the prejudice and hostility that gay students often face. Other stories deal with self-discovery, coming out, solidarity with other queer students, various levels of sexual awareness and/or confusion, and, thankfully, some instances of acceptance and support from straight peers. The voices are honest and articulate, and the book could be a lifesaver for GLBT students who need to know that they're not alone. (Chris Dashiell)
The Phallus Palace The Phallus Palace: female to male transsexuals
by Dean Kotula (Alyson Publications, 2002)

Kotula, a photographer, ex-shipyard machinist, antique business owner, and an FTM (Female to Male Transsexual), shares his experience and expertise so that the reader may better understand the world of FTM Transsexuals. The Phallus Palace contains essays from medical professionals, therapists, friends, and family, as well as personal biographical essays from twenty FTMs. The captivating before-and-after photos succeed in capturing the joyous comfort that these men have gained by aligning their bodies with their identities. If you are at all squeamish, you might have to overlook the graphic photos of surgical procedures near the end of the book. However, these photos will probably increase your awareness of the commitment these men make on their way to becoming whole. If you, or anyone you know, is struggling with gender identity issues, or if you simply want to learn more about female to male transsexuals, The Phallus Palace is the book to read. (Karyn Prechtel)
Queer Street

Queer Street: Rise and Fall of an American Culture, 1947-1985
by James McCourt (Norton, 2004)

From the first line (“In which times, places, weather conditions, and descriptions of what people were (so to speak) wearing come of necessity into figurative play”) it’s clear that this is not a conventional history of gay New York, but a word-carnival of gay style, refracted through the lens of McCourt’s free poetic associations and meditations on everything witty and camp. His interest lies not in sociology, but in “the mind of the life”: the way the thoughts of gay men in postwar New York were expressed through the conversations, personal displays, and popular images and icons of culture. The book is filled with unattributed quotations and asides about everything from opera, nightclubs, and All About Eve, to the hidden meanings of Cardinal Spellman and Douglas Sirk.

The result reads like an experimental novel of gay magic realism. You can dip into it at any place and find something strange, puzzling, or hilarious. McCourt explodes the idea of the chronological narrative, choosing instead to soak the reader in a scented blanket of extravagant attitude and atmosphere, recreating the mood and feel of being right in the middle of the vibrant intellectual and cultural whirlwind of gay life. The author’s personality dominates. His voice is that of a flaming, devil-may-care queen of the night world. His language is bright and flashy, yet full of dense allusions and subterfuge. Queer Street is a literary tour de force, and there’s no real way to describe it other than reading it aloud - you can either succumb to McCourt’s odd, seductive method, or just give up and put the book down. I succumbed.
(Chris Dashiell)

Running with Scissors Running with Scissors
by Augusten Burroughs (St. Martin's Press, 2002)

Give it up, surrender now, there is just no way any of us can out-compete Burroughs on who had the worst childhood: he wins. When his violent, nearly homicidal parents divorce, his mother decides she needs more space to discover herself and her art, and sends 12-year-old Augusten off to live with her shrink. Dr. Finch lives in a run down Victorian with odd family members and absolutely no rules. At 14 he began an affair with the 33-year-old son of the psychiatrist, who approved of the affair as good therapy. Burroughs survived his surreal and horrifying childhood amazingly well, and is able to tell his stories with an unflagging humor. Augusten Burroughs is the author of Sellevision. He lives in New York City.
(Terry Nordbrock)
Sex Crime Panic Sex Crime Panic: a journey to the paranoid heart of the 1950's
by Neil Miller (Alyson Books, 2002)

In Sioux City, Iowa, in 1954, an 8-year-old boy was sexually assaulted and brutally murdered. 50-year-old salesman Ernest Triplett was charged with the crime despite the fact that there was no evidence against Triplett except that he admitted to having sex with men. While under arrest, Triplett was given huge amounts of experimental drugs (LSD and amphetamines) to help him “remember” the murder, and his enjoyment of Liberace was used against him in court. Another gruesome murder occurred while Triplett was incarcerated, and his conviction was later overturned in 1972. The two murders created a public hysteria, which the Iowa legislature responded to by passing a sexual psychopath bill. In 1955 the police rounded-up 20 middle-class gay men not suspected of the crimes, and sentenced them to the state mental hospital until deemed “cured.” The Mount Pleasant Hospital established a special ward for those sentenced under the new law, and Miller provides first person accounts of life in the sexual psychopath ward. A gripping story of murder and antigay hysteria, award-winning journalist Neil Miller’s carefully researched account shows how the paranoia of the McCarthy era destroyed the lives of gay men in the American heartland.

Neil Miller is the author of Out in the World: Gay and Lesbian Life From Buenos Aires to Bangkok, Out of the Past: Gay and Lesbian History from 1869 to the Present, and In Search of Gay America, the winner of the 1990 Stonewall Award from the American Library Association, as well as the Lambda Literary Award. He teaches journalism and nonfiction writing at Tufts University in Medford, Mass.
(Terry Nordbrock)

She’s Not There She’s Not There: A Life in Two Genders
by Jennifer Finney Boylan (Broadway Books, 2003)
This is Jenny Boylan’s first person account of living for forty years as James, then making the wrenching decision to become the woman she’d always been inside. It is profoundly moving and insightful. I was particularly struck by the scene in which she describes wondering why on earth her mother, while ironing her father’s shirts, says, "Someday you’ll wear shirts like this."

James struggles with the decision to become Jenny, because he’d fallen in love with, married, and had two sons with a wonderful woman named Grace. He had spent much of his life searching for the love that would free him of his need to be a woman, and he’d believed Grace was that love. He’s terrified of destroying their family. At last he decides he must make the transition, and describes how Grace and their dear friend, Richard Russo, support him, despite their heartache, confusion and fears. Jenny’s young sons are marvelously accepting of their father’s new identity, and create the name Maddy - a combination of Mommy and Daddy. Perhaps the greatest irony is that Jenny and Grace could remain legally married, but if they were to divorce they would not be allowed to remarry each other.

The administration at Colby College, in Maine, is supportive and accepting. Jenny is co-chair of the English department. As James Finney Boylan, she wrote the novels The Constellations, The Planets, and Getting In. (Laura Thomas Sullivan)

Sissyphobia Sissyphobia: gay men and effeminate behavior
by Tim Bergling (Harrington Park Press, 2001)

This book offers a brief, but thorough look at "sissyphobia" a phenomenon otherwise known as fear and loathing of effeminate men. The unique aspect of this book is that it focuses on the degree to which it exists in the gay male community, which to anyone, who has ever read a personal ad, is obvious (e.g. "No Fats or Fems need respond, masculine men only"). A wide variety of viewpoints are presented, and Bergling lets the subjects speak for themselves, not judging them or their comments. This is not a book about political correctness, but about men speaking frankly about how they feel about feminine behavior in themselves or other men. Opinions on why men would feminize their behaviors are plenty, and run the gamut from biological to behavioral in origin. This is an important book for gay men to read, since all of us, masculine, feminine or somewhere in-between, are generally seen as sissies by the larger society whether we picture ourselves that way or not. (Richard DiRusso)
The Soul Beneath the Skin The Soul Beneath the Skin: the unseen hearts and habits of gay men
by David Nimmons (St. Martin's, 2002)
This thoughtful examination of gay male social patterns overturns the cultural stereotypes of self-regarding hedonism and superficiality purveyed by the media. Presenting and interpreting a wide array of sociological research and studies, Nimmons reveals that gay men have the lowest crime rate of any group, are more involved in volunteer activities, and have created more cooperative, egalitarian forms of relationship. The book's precise, methodical prose doesn't set off any fireworks (although Nimmons is careful to inject a note of humor now and then) but its clarity is effective and its philosophical conclusions are bold. Nimmons' subject isn't just gay men, but what he calls a "new public ethos," a healthier way of living together in society that is being modeled by the gay community. Backed up as it is by a careful marshaling of facts, his viewpoint is welcome indeed. (Chris Dashiell)
Transgender Care Transgender Care: Recommended Guidelines, Practical Information and Personal Accounts
by Gianna E.Israel & Donald E Tarver II, M.D. (Temple University Press, 1997)
This remarkable book was primarily written for medical and psychological professionals who treat transgendered persons. However, it also offers enormous amounts of information to individuals confronted with gender issues; it will make an informed consumer out of anyone considering genital reassignment surgery, hormone administration, and therapy. Just how much testosterone should you take? What can you expect from your employer and friends when you `come out' to them? Where can you go for treatment and surgery, and will insurance cover any of your expenses? These and countless other questions are answered in this unique and extraordinary book. (Karyn Prechtel)
The Woman I Was Not Born to Be The Woman I Was Not Born to Be
by Aleshia Brevard (Temple University, 2001)
The author, one of the few American transsexuals in the pre-Stonewall era, had an eventful career as burlesque drag queen, then TV and movie sexpot. Although the show business "tell all" aspects of her book are highly entertaining, Brevard goes deeper by exploring the traumas and conflicts she experienced while trying to fit into heterosexual society. She makes wise observations about misogyny, problems of exclusion and identity in the gay and trannie communities, and her own growth into an acceptance and affirmation of herself as a transsexual. This woman can write! (Chris Dashiell)
World Turned The World Turned: essays on gay history, politics and culture
by John D'Emilio (Duke University, 2002)
These essays and talks focus on the decade of the 1990s, when gay rights took center stage as a defining issue in American culture and politics. The author's outlook is refreshingly optimistic - fierce public opposition to GLBT visibility from right wing elements is a sign of how successful the movement has been. The book explores a wide variety of issues, including the idea of a "gay gene" (D'Emilio thinks it's self-limiting to claim that people are born gay), the legacies of Bayard Rustin and Larry Kramer, and the dangers of "identity politics," which divides people into warring camps instead of forging alliances. D'Emilio's most thought-provoking sections discuss competing philosophies and strategies of how the movement should proceed, stressing the need to allow for different levels of understanding among straight allies, and the importance of laying claim to family as a valid aspect of gay life. The World Turned is a fair-minded and stimulating overview of where we are, and where we'd like to be going. (Chris Dashiell)
You're Not From Around Here, Are You? You're Not From Around Here, Are You? A Lesbian in Small-town America
by Louise A. Blum (University of Wisconsin Press, 2001)
Blum and her partner, after deciding to have a baby through artificial insemination, experienced a backlash of hatred from the residents of their small Pennsylvania town. The author describes the ups-and-downs of her pregnancy, the struggles and joys of her relationship with her partner, and the intensely vulnerable experience of being the object of a town's homophobia—all in a supple, bracing, emotionally direct prose that is all the more moving for its essential honesty. (Chris Dashiell)

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