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The Bear Handbook The Bear Handbook: A Comprehensive Guide for Those Who Are Husky, Hairy, and Homosexual, and Those Who Love'em
by Ray Kampf (Harrington Park Press, 2000)

A fun book about Bears - you know, those guys whose ample and hirsute presence gets your attention at the bar, glbt event or local eatery. Yes, this book deals in stereotypes, but as the author explains, "Some aspects of humor rely on stereotypical generalizations. A smart person with an open mind knows this. Intelligence and humor go hand in hand." I found myself laughing aloud while reading this book. For example, in a section titled, "The Beard," the author states that the goatee family is "mostly associated with Satan." Kampf liberally peppers his tome with all sorts of off-the-cuff observations, as well as advice and tips for bears and those who love them. Bears are cool because they have the guts (literally as well as figuratively) to just enjoy who they are. The Bear Handbook is a good start for seeing what the fun is all about. (Richard DiRusso)
Before Stonewall Before Stonewall: activists for gay and lesbian rights in historical context
edited by Vern L. Bullough (Harrington Park, 2002)

This book helps to fill a pressing need: paying tribute to those who aided the cause of gay rights in the era before the gay liberation movement. Forty-nine biographical portraits open a fascinating window onto the pre-1969 struggle. With a few exceptions (Allen Ginsberg, Christine Jorgensen, Alfred Kinsey), these are little-known figures that deserve more attention. Among the many inspiring examples are: Henry Gerber, who founded the Society for Human Rights to address persecution of homosexuals, and continued to speak out despite repeated arrest and harassment; Phyllis Lyon, cofounder of the Daughters of Bilitis, a pioneering San Francisco-based lesbian rights group in the 1950s; and Donald Cory, the author of the 1951 book The Homosexual in America, which openly challenged the belief that homosexuality was a disease. This diverse collection includes a number of controversial characters, and a few straight allies as well. To read it is to be inspired with gratitude for the lives of these forerunners of the movement.
(Chris Dashiell)
Behind the Screen Behind the Screen: how gays and lesbians shaped Hollywood, 1910-1969
by William J. Mann (Viking, 2001)

Most of the names "dropped" by Mann won't be familiar to much of today's audience, but their impact on the moviemaking industry cannot be overstated. While many gay individuals performed "queer work" (i.e. costume design and set decoration), others were able to make the jump to publicists and journalists. They then helped create the images of the stars, some of whom they were literally in bed with. The stars themselves enjoyed some eras of more sexual freedom (the 20's and the 40's) when they could be less concerned about appearances. Buzz words such as "lifelong bachelor" or "still searching for Mr./Mrs Right" helped homosexuals identify each other. While some snuck around in shame, many others lived openly with same-sex partners. Others married opposite-sex homosexuals in mutually agreeable partnerships, to protect their image. More than tallying a list of Hollywood homosexuals, Mann explains how these folks shaped the movies, and how the movie business shaped them. (Jimmie Bevill )

There have been studies of gay images and themes in motion pictures before, and there have been books, often with a superficial gossipy tone, claiming that this or that performer in movies was gay. But William Mann's Behind the Screen is the first comprehensive history of gays and lesbians in the American film industry. Focusing as much on supporting roles, such as wardrobe or set designer, as on the more well-known careers of actors and directors, Mann carefully presents a mass of detail showing that gay men and women had an important influence on the creation and evolution of Hollywood style.

The early years saw an atmosphere of social freedom for gays in the industry. As long as the movies made money, gay filmmakers and performers could live the way they wanted, while the press and studio executives looked the other way. But the advent of the Production Code in 1932, following a series of attacks on Hollywood "immorality" by religious conservatives and politicians, forced industry gays to be more cautious. Still, directors like Dorothy Arzner, George Cukor, and Mitchell Leisen managed to get their unique sensibilities past the censors and into the so-called "women's pictures," defining style and romance for a generation. The sexuality of stars such as Marlene Dietrich and Cary Grant was carefully concealed from the public, but Mann breaks through the denials, which in many cases persisted for a lifetime, with his even-handed and thoroughly convincing documentation.

In the less public domains of art direction, costume design, and makeup, the book shows that Hollywood provided great opportunities for gays, with Adrian and Howard Greer being only the most prominent examples. The cost of acceptance was the double standard: while gay life flourished, no one talked about it. With the end of War World II came another backlash - anticommunist witch hunts made life more difficult for gay men and women as well. Mann's section on the Fifties is a fascinating look at how gays in the industry survived in a reactionary climate.

Behind the Screen is filled with interesting private glimpses of film artists in the heyday of the studio system - from the famous (Vincente Minnelli, James Whale, Greta Garbo, Clifton Webb, Ross Hunter) to the relatively unknown (early western star J. Warren Kerrigan, Lilyan Tashman, William Haines). Mann depicts the social and professional worlds of gay Hollywood, explaining how gays supported each other in the industry, and how they were generally accepted by straight colleagues and the studio establishment.

Among the book's insights is how important gay pride and visibility is. For although gays and lesbians had an immense influence on Hollywood movies, and thereby on American styles and mores, the public silence about gay filmmakers and performers has resulted in misapprehension even today. One proof of that is my surprise at finding out just how pervasive gay influence in classic film really was. Mann's book is a groundbreaking corrective to years of ignorance and denial, and an affirmation of the crucial role of gay talent and vision in the development of our most popular art form. (Chris Dashiell)

Civil Wars: A Battle for Gay Marriage Civil Wars: A Battle for Gay Marriage
by David Moats (Harcourt, 2004)
When a lesbian couple applied for a marriage license in Vermont in 1997, they were denied, and their subsequent lawsuit led to a civil rights struggle in that state that would make national headlines. Although the Vermont Supreme Court ruled that the state’s marriage law was unconstitutional, the matter was turned over to the Legislature for consideration. Civil Wars, written by the Pulitzer prize-winning editor of The Rutland Chronicle, tells how gay and lesbian activists, aided by the state’s only openly gay legislator, Bill Lippert, created a successful grass-roots effort establishing the nation’s first gay-inclusive civil union law.

In a warm, personal style, Moats introduces us to all the principals, carefully guiding the reader through each phase of the political process. In order to gain support, gay rights advocates compromised by settling for civil union rather than marriage, but the opposition was still fierce. If there’s one thing the book proves, it’s that courage is needed in order to stand up to the threats and distortions of anti-gay forces. Lies, abuse, and death threats became a reality not only for Lippert and other gay activists, but for their straight allies as well. When the time came for a crucial vote, Lippert made the speech of his life to help turn the tide.

It’s a moving and dramatic story, and also an excellent look at the day-to-day hard work that it takes in order to claim our rights, not just symbolically through protest, but on the practical level of political action and legislation. Civil Wars doesn’t minimize the difficulties and personal risks involved in standing up for gay rights, or the rewards. In the end, this story of one state’s journey towards justice is an inspiration for us all. (Chris Dashiell)

Courting Justice Courting Justice: Gay Men and Lesbians v. the Supreme Court
by Joyce Murdoch and Deb Price (Basic Books, 2001)

Veteran journalists and life partners Joyce Murdoch and Deb Price provide an exhaustively researched, thorough history of gay-related cases before the Supreme Court. They paint fascinating portraits of the array of justices, clerks, attorneys, and plaintiffs embroiled in these controversies, from the surprising 1958 victory of a tiny homosexual magazine, to the 2000 defeat of a gay Eagle Scout. Reading this book, one often thinks of poor Dorothy and her friends petitioning the wizard. Courting Justice is a stunning indictment of our highest court, which it shows to be "an active drag on the nation's evolution to a more just society." (Terry Nordbrock)

Back in 1993 I was amazed by some of my straight-but-not-narrow friends. They assumed that my then-partner and I were legally married. “Why do you need Power of attorney?” they asked, “We were at your wedding.”

Fast forward a decade later and you’ll find that the Friends of the Friends of Dorothy are better versed on gay and lesbian legal issues, but it’s usually only veterans of law school that know anything about Hardwick v. Bowers or Romer v. Evans. (Hardwick is the 1986 Georgia sodomy ruling that has been used by lower court judges as precedent that gays do not have sexual privacy rights. Romer is the 1996 gay rights victory that struck down Colorado’s anti-gay ballot initiative.)

To remedy this ignorance, Joyce Murdoch and Deb Price have produced Courting Justice: Gay Men and Lesbians V. the Supreme Court, a comprehensive, fascinating, and readable history of the American gay and lesbian dance with the law. Murdoch, a National Journal editor, and Price, a syndicated columnist with the Detroit News, researched Court files, interviewed former court clerks and lawyers, and many of the original plaintiffs and defendants covering a period from the 1950’s to the present.

There are interesting portrayals of the Justices. Lewis Powell was the swing vote on Hardwick, who claimed to have never met a homosexual. It was a claim that could have been disputed by the string of gay clerks who worked for Powell. Justice Frank Murphy served the Court from 1940-1949 and looks to have been, most probably, gay.

The best part of the book is the chance to learn about the brave plaintiffs. Frank Kameny was an astronomer who became an activist after losing his federal job in the ‘50s. Tom Waddell, founder of the Gay Games went to court over the use of “Olympics”.

So, is every American is entitled to equal rights under the law?

Keep in mind that the 1996 ruling in Romer v. Evans (striking down the Colorado anti-gay ballot initiative) is the first and only Court ruling to address that discrimination based on sexual orientation violates the Constitution’s guarantee of “equal protection of the law.” May the Court start reflecting our society sooner, not later. (Beth Petrucci)

Dress Codes Dress Codes: of three girlhoods--my mother's, my father's, and mine
by Noelle Howey (Picador USA, 2002)

"I had a dad possibly like yours," Howey explains, "sullen, sporadically hostile, frequently vacant." But far from being the typical story of parental neglect, this memoir describes her father's lifelong discomfort with himself until he accepted himself as a cross-dresser, and later transsexual. Howey transforms too, from the secret-keeping suburban teen mortified by her dad in angora, to a proud and accepting daughter comfortable enough with both parents to interview them for hours about the messages they received about sexuality all their lives. The mom too changed, as her newly divorced life led to a blossoming sexuality. Howey is forthcoming about herself, revealing her enjoyment that, at her ultra-liberal college, having a transsexual parent elevated her "above all the other upper-middle-class white chicks in thrift wear roaming the commons." This funny and thoughtful biography illustrates how mother, father, and daughter all came of age and found their true selves.
(Terry Nordbrock)

Dress Codes has a promising subtitle, but if you are looking for a discourse on girlhood as the rehearsal/prep for the construction of “American Woman,” keep looking. Noelle Howey’s book is first and foremost a memoir of her experience growing up as the suburban middle-class kid of a cross-dressing dad and a tomboy mom. Her father, Dick, was “sullen, sporadically hostile, frequently vacant.” He morphed into the hyper-masculine bowler and sports car-driving “Duke” before eventually leaving his wife, Dinah, and daughter to transition into living as a woman.

It’s a new perspective on the dysfunctional family biography. At 14, Noelle’s burdened with “the family secret: Dad likes to wear women’s clothes,” and by her college years has achieved semi-celebrity on her liberal campus by perpetually outing herself as the girl with a transgender parent. In attempting to tell of “three Girlhoods,” the author re-constructs conversations and scenes from her parents’ high school courting, and these portions make up the weakest part of the book.

Howey comes from the Marion Winick school of TMI (or, Too Much Information) writing. Getting painful revelations onto paper takes guts, but she never achieves perspective, the distance needed to tell a story with more laughs and less wincing.Her story could have benefited from a lighter voice or a stronger editor. (Beth Petrucci)

Lesbian Histories and Cultures The Encyclopedia of Lesbian and Gay Histories and Cultures
edited by George E. Haggerty (Garland, 2000)

This is the source to use when you want to know more about gay art and literature, historical figures and movements, politics, thinkers, organizations, general subjects such as outing or homophobia, and in fact just about anything you can think of. It contains thousands of well written, in-depth articles. I spent two hours browsing, learning about (among other things) elegiac poetry, the Mattachine Society, and avant-garde filmmaker Jack Smith. And that was just the volume on gay men—there's another entire volume devoted to lesbian history and culture. An indispensable queer studies resource. (Chris Dashiell)
The Flaneur The Flaneur: A Stroll Through the Paradoxes of Paris
by Edmund White (Bloomsbury, 2000)

The latest book from one of America's foremost gay writers contains a series of essays—erudite, melancholy, yet stimulating—centered on the city of Paris, where he lived during the 1980s and 90s. Whether writing about French racism, the Dreyfus Affair, or various artistic and literary figures—Baudelaire, Colette, Gustave Moreau—White's incisive prose never flags in energy. Particularly fine is his critique of queer life in the city of lights—as it turns out, gay Paris is mostly closeted, yet the author's sadness about that is tempered with poignant memories of some of his erotic encounters. (Chris Dashiell)
Gay Spirituality Gay Spirituality: The Role of Gay Identity in the Transformation of Human Consciousness
by Toby Johnson (Alyson, 2000)
Johnson believes that the gay movement signals the advent of a new kind of spirituality. Gay people, he argues, tend to question traditional ideas on all levels, not just sex and gender, and are particularly well disposed towards the metaphorical rather than literal interpretation of religion. The book's ideas are provocative, yet the style is quite accessible. The author makes fascinating connections between androgyny and a non-dualist perspective, between gay pride and a reintegration of the body into a sense of spiritual wholeness, as well as offering many other intriguing concepts and possibilities. This book's open-mindedness and optimism provide a refreshing experience. (Chris Dashiell)
   Gay Warriors Gay Warriors: a documentary history from the ancient world to the present.
by Ed. B. R. Burg (New York University, 2002)

Gays and lesbians have played a crucial role in military campaigns, from the Peloponnesian War through the Gulf War, from the campaigns of Achilles to Lawrence of Arabia. This anthology on the often invisible gay and lesbian warriors from antiquity to the present brings to light much that has been obscured by the recent "don't ask, don't tell" policy of the current military service. Same-sex romances were a common and condoned part of military culture in ancient Greece and Rome, in Crusader campaigns and pirate adventures. The Amazons of legend weren't fictional but had a rich culture, as documented by Plato and Seneca. Court-martial proceedings of 17th century England uncover women warriors who passed as men in order to serve. The sexual culture of the samurai as it relates to war-making and of army officers who maintained long-term romantic friendships also highlight this rich aspect of military history. (Jimmie Bevill)

Glenway Wescott, Personally   Glenway Wescott, Personally
by Jerry Roscoe (U. Wisconsin 2002)

Glenway Wescott was a Wisconsin-born writer who achieved fame in Paris during the 1920s. His novel The Grandmothers was a best seller, and his story collection Goodbye Wisconsin was widely admired. In Paris he could live more openly as a gay man with his lifelong partner Monroe Wheeler. At the time he was as prominent a name among expatriate writers as Stein, Fitzgerald, and Hemingway, all of whom he knew. Hemingway must have felt threatened by Wescott, because he attacked his work, and made derogatory remarks about his sexuality. Wescott later moved to New York City and went through a decade-long dry spell where he wrote no fiction, broken by the appearance of Pilgrim Hawk, considered his finest novel. Eventually he stopped writing fiction altogether, focusing on literary criticism and the promotion of the arts until his death in 1987 at the age of 85.

Rosco’s biography is remarkable in that it captures the feel of Wescott’s prose while describing his life. The style of this thoughtful, intimate portrait mirrors Wescott’s own elegant precision as a writer. And although Rosco discusses the major works with great insight, the book is even better at portraying the pre-Stonewall gay artistic community of which Wescott, who was unusually open about his sexuality for those times, played a major role. He seems to have known almost everyone – Marianne Moore, W.H. Auden, E.M. Forster, and Somerset Maugham, among others, and the book provides a fascinating glimpse into this vibrant world of poets and artists. The book also covers Wescott’s enthusiastic involvement with Alfred Kinsey’s studies on sexuality in the 1950s. Wescott emerges as a leading figure in American intellectual life, and an important early example of a gay artist who chose candor over concealment. (Chris Dashiell)

Hans Christian Andersen Hans Christian Andersen: The Life of a Storyteller
by Jackie Wullschlager (Knopf, 2001)
Danish fairy-tale creator Hans Christian Andersen, famous for "The Ugly Duckling," "The Little Mermaid," and "The Emperor's New Clothes," comes alive, replete with worries and neuroses. Literary critic Wullschlager blasts the old image of Andersen as a "sweet natured, pathetic entertainer," instead painting a portrait of a fascinatingly complex soul, rising from extreme poverty only to be forever ill at ease in high society. One of Andersen's life patterns was to simultaneously court a man and a woman, often a brother and sister. Wullschlager's impeccably researched biography maintains that Andersen's bisexuality influenced his stories every bit as much as his rags-to-riches success. (Terry Nordbrock)
Homophobia: A History Homophobia: A History
by Byrne Fone (Metropolitan Books, 2000)
This is a thoroughly researched and eloquent tome chronicling the fear and loathing of homosexuality in the Western World from antiquity to the present day. With chapters focusing on topics such as "The Plague of Sodomy," "England's Abominable Vice," and "American Masculinity," this book covers a lot of ground. One thing that this book establishes, besides the awful power of homophobia to destroy lives, is that gay people (or what ever term you care to use for those attracted to their own sex) have been around for a long, long time and in all strata of society. (Rich DiRusso)

How Homophobia Hurts Children

How Homophobia Hurts Children: Nurturing Diversity atHhome, at School, and in the Community
by Jean M. Baker (Harrington Park, 2002)
A much needed examination of the damage that is done to gay children who face the persecution of adults and peers, and the miscomprehension of parents, teachers, and professionals. Baker covers the myths and fallacies that keep gay kids in the closet, outlining the stages of identity development from childhood through adolescence, and the personal, legal, and social barriers that confront them all the way. She then offers strategies for establishing safety and support, such as gay youth groups, gay-straight alliances, and guidance for teachers and school administrators on how to fight homophobia. With interviews and firsthand descriptions that provide insights into the lives of gay kids, the book also includes insightful chapters on transgender issues and personal stories of transsexuals growing up. How Homophobia Hurts Children is written in a clear, accessible style, and suffused with conviction and humanity. It is a vital resource for anyone committed to helping create a more nurturing environment for children.
(Chris Dashiell)
How Sex Changed How Sex Changed: a history of transsexuality in the United States
by Joanne Meyerowitz (Harvard University Press, 2002)

A gripping social, cultural, and medical history of transsexuality in America, How Sex Changed is a readable, well-researched, and valuable addition to the fields of gender, sexuality and American history. From 1952, when Christine Jorgensen returned to the states and the news headlines read "Ex-GI becomes blonde beauty," to the early 1990s, Meyerowitz, a history professor at Indiana University, follows a loose chronology to examine both scientific and public attitudes on transsexuality over the years. Her sources include autobiographical material and letters found in Jorgensen's archives, as well as the files of the few medical practitioners who supported transsexuals before the 90s.

How Sex Changed is the recipient of the 2003 Stonewall Award for non-fiction. The oldest GLBT book awards in the U.S, the Stonewall Awards are given by the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Round Table of the American Library Association. (Karyn Prechtel)

I’m the One that I Want I’m the One that I Want
by Margaret Cho (Ballentine Books, 2001.)
It’s easy to love Margaret Cho. She’ll tell everything, she’s fat as the rest of us, a consummate fag hag, and she can make us laugh over things that ordinarily might make us cry. Cho tackles racism against Asians, body image problems, drug and alcohol abuse, her childhood filled with alienation, and the nightmare that her television series All-American Girl turned into, turning it all into highly quotable wit made all the more shocking and delicious when you realize her mother has read every word.

Born in 1968 in San Francisco, Cho paints a hilarious yet affectionate portrait of her Korean mother, with unforgettable stories such as her mother’s investigating the porn magazines in their bookstore on the infamous Polk Street gay drag. Cho reveals the horror of church-camp summers and feeling invisible or downright disliked as a child, and the kinship and solace found from the drag queens who worked in her father’s store. "Drag queens are strong because they have so much to fight against," writes Cho, "homophobia, sexism, pink eye."

To support herself at the beginning of her comedy career, Cho worked at FAO Schwarz, sometimes moonlighting in phone sex. Occasionally the jobs would overlap, and she would find herself doing phone sex dressed as Raggedy Ann.

This book is based on her hilarious one-woman off-Broadway show/movie, but is more painful in the print version. It doesn’t have all the content of the stage show (the bisexual stories are missing!), and it does have more of a therapy feel to it (“I hated myself, but now I’ve found my inner goddess, and you can too.”) But there is new material too, and the book acts as a big loving Band-aid for all of us who have ever been told we are not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough or just not enough, period.

Cho is presently on tour with her new show, The Notorious C. H. O. She already played Phoenix in November, but for additional tour dates check out her website, http://www.margaretcho.com.
(Terry Nordbrock)

It's Not Mean If It's True It's Not Mean If It's True: More Trials from My Queer Life
by Michael Thomas Ford (Los Angeles: Alyson, 2000)
Ford is funny. Funny in the way that makes me giggle or laugh out loud ("I will not have as a friend anyone who really cares what Leonardo DiCaprio, Antonio Banderas, or Brendan Fraser are up to at any given moment"), but also funny in a way that I can relate to personally, as when he worries that "one day there will be a knock on the door and some official-looking person will announce in a loud voice that the jig is up and I have to go back to junior high with the other kids." He is sarcastic without being bitter, gleefully satiric without being depressing, and seamlessly mixes the personal with the political. Most of all he's just very funny. Highly recommended as a cure for the blues. (Chris Dashiell)
The Laramie Project The Laramie Project
by Moises Kaufman and the members of the Tectonic Theatre Project (Vintage, 2001)

In the year and a half following the murder of Matthew Shepard, Moises Kaufman and the Tectonic Theater Project made a series of visits to Laramie, Wyoming and conducted hundreds of interviews with the citizens there. By using the words and voices captured in those interviews, they have created a moving piece of theater that also works as literature.

The chorus of voices includes the college student who first discovered Shepard's beaten body, the police, doctors at the hospital, Matthew's friends, his father, and his teachers, his convicted killers and their friends, Laramie's religious leaders and even the nomadic and vile Fred Phelps.

This is a mesmerizing work that evokes raw emotion. It is compelling to watch the citizens wrestle to make sense of a horrific murder in their community, while struggling with the changes in their own sense of self, whether those changes are a new-found gay activism or having to view themselves through the mirror of the national media. (Beth Petrucci)

The Little Book of Neuroses The Little Book of Neuroses
by Michael Thomas Ford (Alyson Books, 2001)

An in-depth, on-target and hilarious look at queer life. Threaded throughout are thought-provoking pieces that enhance this collection of self-depreciating essays. For instance, why are lesbians fascinated by acoustic guitars? Does Tiger Beat make boys gay? These modern urban tales reveal new truths while at the same time poking fun at queer culture and gay archetypes. (Jimmie Bevill)
Losing Matt Shepard Losing Matt Shepard: Life and Politics in the Aftermath of Anti-gay Murder
by Beth Lofredda (Columbia University, 2000)
The 1998 murder of gay University of Wyoming student Matthew Shepard made headlines and helped galvanize a movement to include gay and lesbian victims in hate crime laws. Lofredda sidesteps the media-fed sensationalism to portray the story of the trial, the controversies that arose after the murder, and the implications for gay rights and the anti-gay right wing. She also offers a balanced view of life in conservative, largely poor, Wyoming, as well as moving portraits of individuals affected by Shepard's death, such as a young man in Laramie who was inspired to come out and get involved in gay activism. Dramatic, informed, and intelligent. (Chris Dashiell)

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